tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7440780394540385257.post3498097007389186965..comments2023-10-22T03:19:44.797-04:00Comments on My so-called CIVILIAN LIFE: struggling with success vs. failureJocelyn Wong Neillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13707588369735721409noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7440780394540385257.post-43924033052428975892012-03-16T10:41:41.127-04:002012-03-16T10:41:41.127-04:00Hi Martina! Thanks so much for this message. Been ...Hi Martina! Thanks so much for this message. Been meaning to write back--saw that you tried new sports as well, lol. Yes, I am happier without tris at the moment, I just get stuck in that rut of missing it sometimes. I'll think of it as missing...high school. Remember the good but man, there were pretty awful moments too!!!Jocelyn Wong Neillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13707588369735721409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7440780394540385257.post-50451677918384592832012-03-02T00:58:07.088-05:002012-03-02T00:58:07.088-05:00It's a tough one, but never think of being a f...It's a tough one, but never think of being a failure!! everything you've done and been though has brought you to today and it seems like there's lots going for you!<br /><br />You might miss triathlons as you might miss the days when of university or last year's great birthday party, or even last night's date, etc its easy to miss all the good stuff and forget the bad ones like you said. So, if you're happy now, just enjoy it and you'll find or make exciting adventures if that's what you want ... they'll just be different ones. Plus, you can always go back into tris. I say if it'll make you happier go for it, but if not or there's some doubt don't bother and stay happy! It'll always be there.<br /><br />Anyways, just a thought :) It isn't an easy one that's for sure!! Just have fun!Martina Wanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02932311746895187304noreply@blogger.com